SCOPE OF RESPONSIBILITY HUSBAND-WIFE IN MEETING THE NEEDS OF THE FAMILY

 SCOPE OF RESPONSIBILITY HUSBAND-WIFE IN MEETING THE NEEDS OF THE FAMILY

1. Meet physical needs

Realizing that there are needs that must be met, (clothing, food, shelter). If it is not fulfilled it can cause conflict, so a person who wants to get married must think about everything in order to also prepare everything that is needed (don't be too overly worried).

2. Meet psychological needs

Will, feeling, will, self-respect, acceptance. People need to be accepted and respected. Must understand that it is a need, (sharing; communication, concern for each other). It is as important as meeting physical needs

3. Meet social needs

Attachment to people in the environment. Every couple has their own social world. Problems can occur if: (1) Do not understand that it is a need; (2) do not understand the boundaries of socializing. It cannot be protective, the wife and husband belong only to themselves. But they have to agree with each other, so that they may understand.

4. Meet spiritual needs

The main thing. Every couple must realize that this is a need, so that they can look at each other and support each other. Adam and Eve paid no attention to this, and should also pay attention to the spirituality of the children. It is not an easy thing, if this is not fulfilled it will experience spiritual dryness as opposed to physical, psychological, and social needs.

The four aspects of needs in the family have an influence on one another as a whole. Balance is something that needs to be fought for, because inequality can destroy the whole.

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